My bf was being a jerk, but was I too harsh?

if you don't break up with him, pardon my rudeness, but you're an IDIOT. he's a total scumbag! don't let him treat you like that. making fun of your weight and your hard work, not being compassionate when you were going through a family rough patch? that's not a good boyfriend, that's an awful guy. you can't change him - that's one of the worst mistakes girls make. the fact that he's trying to pressure you into sex is frosting on the whole thing. DUMP. HIM. if you don't then the joke is on you and you'll end up with a broken heart. guaranteed.